The fifth and final part of our ‘Pick your People’ series is the Bestman/maid.  If you are struggling to make those oh so important decisions, go through our easy to use flowchart to see if you should say ‘yes’ or ‘no’.

In our experience, you already know who this will be, but probably have those niggling one or two people in the back of your mind that you also want to feel special.  A simple rule is your bestie or sibling is a great choice.  Think about who will be making speeches and whether they would like to do this.  You could always choose to have a conversation with those special people who you might have liked to have but they would not want to do everything that came with it, just to reassure them that they were in your mind but you know them well enough to know that they would not want to be in that position.  Whoever you choose, make the choice exactly that; yours. Because remember, your wedding day really is all about you.