The fourth part to choosing those people you would like to have in your wedding party is the Maid or Man of Honour.  If you are struggling to make those oh so important decisions, go through our easy to use flowchart to see if you should say ‘yes’ or ‘no’.

This role can be useful if you want to help a bestie or a family member feel more special than simply being a member of the wedding party.  However, it is not an essential role, so do not get yourself worked up if you cannot or do not want to have this person.  Make sure the choice is yours, which our flowchart can help you do, because remember, your wedding day really is all about you.