Thirdly, in your plan to picking the right people for your specials, we want you to think about the kids.  If you are struggling to make those oh so important decisions, go through our easy to use flowchart to see if you should say ‘yes’ or ‘no’.

It really is a difficult one, because every friend and family member who has a child will want them to be involved.  The costs can mount up very quickly if you start to add them all in.  Have a clear idea in mind of how to entertain the kids.  They will feel just as special if you pop them a gift box on the table to keep them occupied during the wedding breakfast.  Do not be pushed into having someone just because their parents want you to.  Because remember, your wedding day really is all about you.