In the second of our five part plan to pick your wedding party, we talk Groomsmen/mates and Marriersmen/mates.  If you are struggling to make those oh so important decisions, go through our easy to use flowchart to see if you should say ‘yes’ or ‘no’.

Remember, there are other ways to make people feel important without having to clothe them.  Staying focused on this will help you keep the costs down whilst you are managing the budget. Your tribe are so important to you.  They will help you plan your stag/fox do, they will keep you calm on the morning and they will be absolutely delighted to stand by your side as your say your vows. Expectations of having someone can be sensitivity handles with honesty and kindness, but your choices should yours and your partners alone.  Because your wedding day really is all about you.